When you're a kinky person, spanking is a part of your life.
As a member of the BDSM community, you've definitely got opinions and personal preferences when it comes to getting spanked.
Kink loving subs? We love it! Bring on the bare hand or the paddle or the flogger and let the spanking begin!
Doms/dommes? They love it too, albeit it for very different reasons.
You might love getting beaten during your kinky sex, but that doesn't mean you've sat around and thought about what spanking during sex has to do with your brain.
In fact, while your brain might be working overtime helping you get your kinky freak on, chances are you aren't pondering its chemical mysteries while enjoying spanking during sex.
Luckily, that's where I, a professional kinky pervert, can be of some use.
Here's what exactly is going on in your mind when you're enjoying a nice session of spanking with your dom/domme:
1. Endorphins are released.
So, if you know that being good and taking your spanking means that you will be rewarded and praised by your dom, your body will preemptively respond to the act of spanking itself.
5. Operant conditioning takes hold.
Let's say you show up to get spanked and your partner discovers that you aren't wearing the white cotton panties they prefer you to wear for spankings.
Punishment? No spanking for you.
It's practically a guarantee that you won't ever show up without those panties again.
It's all about punishment and reward.
It is important to know all of this information about what happens to your brain when you are spanked during sex, especially since we live in a culture where liking anything other than vanilla sex can make you feel ashamed or embarrassed.
The reason you like this stuff is, in part, because of your biochemical makeup!
It doesn't get more straightforward than that.
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