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domenica 8 gennaio 2023
Il mio cucciolo in Cb.
Il 31/12/22 è iniziata una nuova avventura per il mio cucciolo. Un percorso di castità per dimostrarmi la sua devozione e il suo impegno per me.
Etichette:
Cb,
chastity,
chastity belt,
dominagoldy
venerdì 15 maggio 2020
venerdì 6 dicembre 2019
C is for Caged – Part 2
Colby hung up the phone wondering how in the hell he was going to manage an orgasm. He opened the drawer next to the bed that held Corrine’s sex toys. He found a big dildo and tossed it on the bed. That would be no help. Then he found nipple clamps. Nope. A flogger. Ben Wa Balls. Clit clamp. Fuck. None of those things would be helpful.
Finally, he hit the jackpot. He found a small vibrator that was soft and squishy. It was designed to work on a clit, but it might do it. He pulled it out and checked that it worked. It did. He lay back against the pillows and spread his legs wide. He could feel his cock pressing hard against the cage already, and he knew that this was going to be painful. But he also knew the consequences of failing.
Pressing the vibrator against the base of his cock, he felt the whole cage vibrate. It was a different sensation than he was used to, but it felt good. In fact, it felt so good that he could feel his orgasm building quickly. Without meaning to, he started bucking his hips. He groaned loudly as hot cum came shooting out and covering parts of the cage and his fingers. He quickly snapped a picture with his phone and texted it to Corrine.
“Very good,” she said in reply. Then she texted him a restaurant and time.
He got himself cleaned up as best he could in the cage and was waiting for her ten minutes before the appointed time. He watched her pull into the lot and gingerly got out of his car. His cock was sore from pressing against the cage, and the orgasm had not left him feeling relieved at all.
Colby watched her carefully so that he was standing next to her door when she put the car in park. As soon as the door unlocked, he opened it for her.
She smiled up at him, sliding her sunglasses off. “Thank you, dear,” she said sweetly. Too sweetly.
He attempted a smile that came out more like a grimace and stood back so she could exit the car. He closed the door for her, and she slipped her arms around him in a hug, pressing her body against his so that she could feel the cage. He moaned involuntarily.
“You’re such a good boy,” she whispered in his ear. “I liked seeing that picture.”
“Thank you, Ma’am,” he whispered back.
“Shall we?” she asked, pulling back as though she hadn’t just given him another raging hard on within his confines.
He whimpered but nodded. They held hands as they walked into the restaurant. It wasn’t busy, and they got a table right away. Sitting down, she made chit-chat about work while he sat uncomfortably, wondering if Corrine was going to give him the key to the cage. She hadn’t promised she would, which he realized was a mistake on his part. He should have made that part of the deal, but he had suspected she wouldn’t be negotiated with.
When they had finished their lunch, he paid the check and walked her to her car. He held the door open, and she slid inside. He couldn’t believe how nervous he felt. He didn’t know how to bring it up. With the door open wide, he stood as close to the car as he could get. She was just eye level with his cock.
“What?” she asked, feigning innocence.
“Ma’am,” he cleared his throat and swallowed hard, “would you please give me the key?”
She grinned. “Why should I?”
“I did everything you asked, Ma’am.”
“Of course you did. I expected you to.”
“Yes, Ma’am,” he said, and his eyes dropped to the ground, defeated. He knew he wasn’t getting out of the cage today.
“Good boy,” she said. He had to take a step back as she got back out of the car. She rubbed her body up against his and kissed him deeply. His arms went around her automatically, and he held her tight against him. He couldn’t help but whimper into her mouth as their hot kiss further wound him up.
“Thank you, Ma’am.”
She wrapped her arms around him, and he felt something slide into his pocket. “You may unlock yourself when you get home,” she said. “You were a very good boy.”
“Thank you, Ma’am,” he said, this time with utter relief. Only a little longer and he would be free!
“But first,” she said, and he had to stop himself from moaning, “I need you to run a few errands for me.” She pulled a folded note out of her pocket and handed it to him. “Good luck!” she said.
He watched her drive away and then pulled out the note. He. Was. Screwed.
venerdì 29 novembre 2019
C is for Caged - Part 1
Colby Carr woke up and was supremely uncomfortable. For a moment, he couldn’t remember why. As he opened his eyes and stretched, he remembered. Every morning, for as long as he could remember, he woke up with a raging hard-on. Unfortunately for him, his girlfriend had asked him to wear a cock cage. So this morning, he woke up with his raging hard-on pressed through the bars of the cage. He looked at it tentatively. The cage had bars that went around and two bars that went straight up the length of his shaft. When he was free, his cock hardened to seven inches, but in this contraption, he was restricted to about four inches.
Last night was the first time he had ever put it on. He had struggled to get the ring around his balls, and then the cage fitted to it and locked on, but he had managed. It had been after he had had sex with his girlfriend Corrine, so he had been nice and soft. He had reservations about wearing it overnight, but she had crooned at him that it turned her on and he went along with it. He usually did what she asked of him, even though they didn’t have a formal Dominant/submissive relationship.
Tentatively he touched the skin protruding from the bars. It felt as velvety as usual, and he groaned. The stimulation, even from himself, caused his cock to spasm against the metal. He rolled over to find Corrine but found that he was alone. “Fuck,” he whispered. He had been hoping that it would be enough for him to wear it overnight and she would take it off in the morning. But she hadn’t. And now he knew it would be too late.
Looking at the clock, he saw that it was nine. Corinne had to be at work by nine. He worked second shift, so he had nowhere to be, but since he went to work at two and she worked until five, he was afraid he was stuck in the cage for the whole day.
Picking up the phone, he dialed her mobile phone without thought. “Hello?” she said, after a few rings.
“Hey, Corrine,” Colby said.
“How are you?” The amusement in her voice was apparent.
“Hard.”
She giggled. “Perfect.”
“Not perfect. Where’s the key?”
“In my pocket.” His cock spasmed against his will. Why was it that knowing the only key to release him from hell was in his girlfriend’s pocket at work?
“What am I supposed to do?”
“I don’t know,” she said. Colby could tell from her tone that she was shrugging her shoulders on the other end of the connection.
“Fuck,” he murmured.
“Watch your language, love,” she purred.
“Please, Corrine? Can I meet you on your lunch break?”
“Oh, I don’t know,” she said. “Let me think about it.”
“Please, Corrine. I’m so hard. I can’t stand it.”
“You can take care of yourself,” she replied with a smile.
“How?”
“Be creative,” she admonished.
His mind was whirling. Could he get himself off with the cage enclosing his cock? Would it hurt too much? Would it be worth the relief though? Or, could he convince her to meet him on her lunch break? “Maybe,” he said, still thinking.
“I’ll make you a deal,” she said.
“I’m listening.”
“If you can get yourself off and send me picture proof, I’ll let you meet me for lunch, and maybe I’ll let you have the key.”
“And if not?”
“Then you’re stuck until tomorrow.”
“Tomorrow?”
“Yep.”
“But what about after work?”
“Nope. If you can’t take care of yourself, you get another night in the cage. Deal?”
He paused. It was a gamble. He had no idea if he could be successful, but he was willing to give it a try. “Deal.”
Last night was the first time he had ever put it on. He had struggled to get the ring around his balls, and then the cage fitted to it and locked on, but he had managed. It had been after he had had sex with his girlfriend Corrine, so he had been nice and soft. He had reservations about wearing it overnight, but she had crooned at him that it turned her on and he went along with it. He usually did what she asked of him, even though they didn’t have a formal Dominant/submissive relationship.
Tentatively he touched the skin protruding from the bars. It felt as velvety as usual, and he groaned. The stimulation, even from himself, caused his cock to spasm against the metal. He rolled over to find Corrine but found that he was alone. “Fuck,” he whispered. He had been hoping that it would be enough for him to wear it overnight and she would take it off in the morning. But she hadn’t. And now he knew it would be too late.
Looking at the clock, he saw that it was nine. Corinne had to be at work by nine. He worked second shift, so he had nowhere to be, but since he went to work at two and she worked until five, he was afraid he was stuck in the cage for the whole day.
Picking up the phone, he dialed her mobile phone without thought. “Hello?” she said, after a few rings.
“Hey, Corrine,” Colby said.
“How are you?” The amusement in her voice was apparent.
“Hard.”
She giggled. “Perfect.”
“Not perfect. Where’s the key?”
“In my pocket.” His cock spasmed against his will. Why was it that knowing the only key to release him from hell was in his girlfriend’s pocket at work?
“What am I supposed to do?”
“I don’t know,” she said. Colby could tell from her tone that she was shrugging her shoulders on the other end of the connection.
“Fuck,” he murmured.
“Watch your language, love,” she purred.
“Please, Corrine? Can I meet you on your lunch break?”
“Oh, I don’t know,” she said. “Let me think about it.”
“Please, Corrine. I’m so hard. I can’t stand it.”
“You can take care of yourself,” she replied with a smile.
“How?”
“Be creative,” she admonished.
His mind was whirling. Could he get himself off with the cage enclosing his cock? Would it hurt too much? Would it be worth the relief though? Or, could he convince her to meet him on her lunch break? “Maybe,” he said, still thinking.
“I’ll make you a deal,” she said.
“I’m listening.”
“If you can get yourself off and send me picture proof, I’ll let you meet me for lunch, and maybe I’ll let you have the key.”
“And if not?”
“Then you’re stuck until tomorrow.”
“Tomorrow?”
“Yep.”
“But what about after work?”
“Nope. If you can’t take care of yourself, you get another night in the cage. Deal?”
He paused. It was a gamble. He had no idea if he could be successful, but he was willing to give it a try. “Deal.”
lunedì 25 novembre 2019
lunedì 21 ottobre 2019
LOCKTOBER : #4 Prova
#4 PROVA DELLA SETTIMANA:
I partecipanti devono gonfiare dieci palloncini, sedercisi sopra e scoppiarli.
Gabbietta col botto!
In bocca al lupo a Giorgio Gritti, Domenico Maggiore, Gio Maggiori, Daniele Sciavo e Sla Gag!
Colonna sonora facoltativa e a scelta.
domenica 6 ottobre 2019
mercoledì 2 ottobre 2019
martedì 1 ottobre 2019
PROVA #1 DEL LOCKTOBER 2019!
Ecco a voi la prima prova del LOCKTOBER 2019:
un video con viso oscurato/tagliato nel quale cantate la seguente canzone: "L'uselin della comare".
Nel video dovete essere nudi e in ginocchio.
Allo slave che darà l'interpretazione migliore e/o più divertente verrà concessa un'ora di libertà durante la quale potete fare quello che vuole ovviamente senza venire.
Resto a disposizione per chiarimenti.
un video con viso oscurato/tagliato nel quale cantate la seguente canzone: "L'uselin della comare".
Nel video dovete essere nudi e in ginocchio.
Allo slave che darà l'interpretazione migliore e/o più divertente verrà concessa un'ora di libertà durante la quale potete fare quello che vuole ovviamente senza venire.
Resto a disposizione per chiarimenti.
Etichette:
bdsm,
chastity,
dominagoldy,
Locktober
domenica 21 luglio 2019
lunedì 17 giugno 2019
6 Reasons Why Men Should be Kept in Chastity
1. Fidelity From Afar
Chastity devices were originally designed to keep the wearer faithful. Thus having his crown jewels locked away – so he can’t play away – is totally reassuring as it ensures his complete fidelity. In this way chastity devices also help deal with habitual cock wankers ensuring they aren’t off self-pleasuring themselves. Masturbation drains their desire of you and therefore should be controlled, monitored or stopped entirely.
2. Focus
Another effect is what I call ‘focus’ by keeping him in chastity, even when you are actually sexually engaged with him, forces him to focus on you and your pleasure. He should be giving you orgasms, and lots of them! If you don’t allow him to cum or even have that as an option, he has to concentrate on you; your pleasure becomes his pleasure. We all know the effect that cumming can have on a man – his small brain flips to food and football! So just don’t let him cum or motivate him with what we employ at The English Mansion – the 50 equals 1 rule (that a slave must give me 50 orgasms to earn just one for himself).
3. Sexual Re-Education
This leads to another use – controlling his sexual desires. His chastity device should ensure that he can’t even get an errection (not without a lot of pain ) Thus as soon as the device comes off he’s hard and hot for you. Keeping him always desperate, ready for sex, pliable and agreeable. Now is the time to steer him towards what you want sexually. His simple male brain can now be reprogrammed and his desires corrected e.g. only allowing him to get hard and/or cum while being fucked with a strapon or when licking your pussy
4. It’s Hot! Teasing & Total Denial
Teasing him in chastity i.e. keeping him in a heightened state of sexual arousal for a long time and then denying him an orgasm, as a woman can be so hot. Keeping him in a weakened state begging for release – pathetic, pliable & attentive. Knowing you have total control over him and you can use his sexual arousal against him to your advantage – the perfect male manipulation material. Never let him assume he will get an orgasm when engaged sexually with you, it should be at your whim or earned; and preferable after a very long period of abstinence.
5. Ownership
For BDSM players putting your slave into enforced chastity can symbolise ownership, like a collar or a body marking. It reminds him constantly of your control from afar and that you own him, his cock and rule his desires.
6. Feminisation
Chastity devices can also be useful for enforced male to female transformations, locking away his male genitalia permanently will help emasculate him. Using genital piercings to do this also has the benefit of pulling his cock back between the legs to lock it up, thus refining his figure and getting rid of this ugly unfeminine disfigurement.
https://www.theenglishmansion.com/blog/archives/6748
Etichette:
articoli,
bdsm,
chastity,
dominagoldy,
english
mercoledì 8 maggio 2019
How To Train Your Man…
There is no more effective way to train men than through their cocks/orgasms…
Yeah, yeah…there will always be exceptions. But seriously…this is it. Men are incredibly easy to train if you understand what drives them.
Some women and men are of the opinion that keeping a male sub in constant, long (or very long) term chastity is the most effective way to train. I completely disagree. The reason for this is simple: if a man knows his cock will never be allowed to come, then the orgasm ceases to become a motivation, or a carrot, if you will…
So here is what I do. I use the cock/orgasm to reprogram and condition my slave. So what follows involves using chastity as a training device rather than as a punishment or way of life. Basic steps look something like this:
1. The chastity device.
There are many versions out there, but for this to work, this needs to be a device that is secure and lock-able. I must have the key. I have the power over his cock and he cannot escape. This is an enormously powerful and symbolic message.
2. Putting it on.
Eventually, wearing the chastity device will become second nature – but you must set the example, set the stage, the first few times that you put the cage on. The manner and words and attitude that you adopt when you put this on him for the first time will stay with him as he wears it, and going forward, how he feels about wearing it. The first few times I make sure that he knows how meaningful this is…that I am purposefully choosing to take control of his body, that I am taking his cock, his symbol of masculinity, away from him. Owning it. Controlling it. Mine. For as long as I wish. I make him beg me to put it on. I make him watch as I lock it. I make him thank me for doing it.
Eventually, wearing the chastity device will become second nature – but you must set the example, set the stage, the first few times that you put the cage on. The manner and words and attitude that you adopt when you put this on him for the first time will stay with him as he wears it, and going forward, how he feels about wearing it. The first few times I make sure that he knows how meaningful this is…that I am purposefully choosing to take control of his body, that I am taking his cock, his symbol of masculinity, away from him. Owning it. Controlling it. Mine. For as long as I wish. I make him beg me to put it on. I make him watch as I lock it. I make him thank me for doing it.
3. The Rules.
Now, I have him. He’s mine. Seriously. What will a man not do to have his cock, his pleasure? Both are now mine to command. It is best to have thought this out very carefully before locking him in. Chastity training is very powerful and making mistakes here isn’t desirable.
For the best results, these three components are essential:
Begin with (potentially) brief and clear-cut stints in chastity
Make the things he must do to get out of chastity and/or earn his orgasm very straightforward and obtainable
Keep your promises
Now, I have him. He’s mine. Seriously. What will a man not do to have his cock, his pleasure? Both are now mine to command. It is best to have thought this out very carefully before locking him in. Chastity training is very powerful and making mistakes here isn’t desirable.
For the best results, these three components are essential:
Begin with (potentially) brief and clear-cut stints in chastity
Make the things he must do to get out of chastity and/or earn his orgasm very straightforward and obtainable
Keep your promises
If you want chastity to be an effective tool, he must see that his behavior is directly tied to his release. At first, the cause/effect correlation must be very clear. Most importantly, you must keep your word. If you say that he will be allowed release from chastity after he has made you breakfast in bed five days in a row, then you must keep your promise. There are lots of memes out there depicting women changing their mind about allowing their men out of chastity. For initial training purposes, this is an absolutely horrible idea. If your sub loses faith in the cause and effect nature of chastity, he will ultimately cease to trust that his behavior will have any impact on his release – thus lessening the power of your ‘threats’.
Now, once his brain has become re-wired and he realizes that he must behave…your timelines can become longer, the tasks more complicated, and you can occasionally change the rules. But I repeat – this should only be done after you have effectively broken him and trained him.
The benefits of male chastity
My rules tend to force him to focus on my pleasure – to force his brain to begin associating my pleasure as a prerequisite to his. Example: He must give me a certain amount orgasms before he is released. Now, I don’t need chastity to have him do this. First, he’s happy to lick my pussy at any time. Second, I could just tell him to lick my pussy at any time. So… why connect this to chastity? Because this is more than him deciding, or me giving an order. This is my choice to literally re-wire his brain to associate my orgasms to his own pleasure. And I don’t keep what I’m doing a secret. I want him to know what I am doing. I want him to know that his body is just the tool I’m using to control his mind. Of course, I add other things on as well, but my pleasure should always come first.
Now, once his brain has become re-wired and he realizes that he must behave…your timelines can become longer, the tasks more complicated, and you can occasionally change the rules. But I repeat – this should only be done after you have effectively broken him and trained him.
The benefits of male chastity
My rules tend to force him to focus on my pleasure – to force his brain to begin associating my pleasure as a prerequisite to his. Example: He must give me a certain amount orgasms before he is released. Now, I don’t need chastity to have him do this. First, he’s happy to lick my pussy at any time. Second, I could just tell him to lick my pussy at any time. So… why connect this to chastity? Because this is more than him deciding, or me giving an order. This is my choice to literally re-wire his brain to associate my orgasms to his own pleasure. And I don’t keep what I’m doing a secret. I want him to know what I am doing. I want him to know that his body is just the tool I’m using to control his mind. Of course, I add other things on as well, but my pleasure should always come first.
4. The Reward.
Any time the chastity device is taken off, it should be clear that it is a kindness that you are bestowing upon him. Before it is taken off, the rules of his behavior should be crystal clear to him. Is he allowed to have a full orgasm immediately, or at a certain time? For the most effective training, I recommend that immediately following his release, you arrange for an incredibly powerful, satisfying orgasm. One that YOU take part in– either directly, or indirectly. This intense pleasure will reinforce how desirable it is to be out of chastity, and how hard he should be willing to do whatever it takes to earn his freedom from it.
Later, once he has been conditioned and well trained, he will be grateful for a ruined orgasm…for being allowed to touch his cock at all. But for initial training, the orgasm should follow as soon after release as possible. Again, this is quite literally re-wiring his brain to associate you and your control of him with pleasure.
Any time the chastity device is taken off, it should be clear that it is a kindness that you are bestowing upon him. Before it is taken off, the rules of his behavior should be crystal clear to him. Is he allowed to have a full orgasm immediately, or at a certain time? For the most effective training, I recommend that immediately following his release, you arrange for an incredibly powerful, satisfying orgasm. One that YOU take part in– either directly, or indirectly. This intense pleasure will reinforce how desirable it is to be out of chastity, and how hard he should be willing to do whatever it takes to earn his freedom from it.
Later, once he has been conditioned and well trained, he will be grateful for a ruined orgasm…for being allowed to touch his cock at all. But for initial training, the orgasm should follow as soon after release as possible. Again, this is quite literally re-wiring his brain to associate you and your control of him with pleasure.
Important Tips
If you keep your sub in long term (longer than a month at a time) chastity, it is important for his health that you milk his prostate monthly. This can have the added bonus of highlighting your absolute control over his body.
Be sure that you understand how to properly fit and install a chastity device. An improper fit can cause un-fun pinching or cause un-fun bruising or blood flow problems.
If you intend to keep your sub in chastity for longer than a day, make sure that you are using a device that will allow for air, and proper hygiene.
Have fun!
If you keep your sub in long term (longer than a month at a time) chastity, it is important for his health that you milk his prostate monthly. This can have the added bonus of highlighting your absolute control over his body.
Be sure that you understand how to properly fit and install a chastity device. An improper fit can cause un-fun pinching or cause un-fun bruising or blood flow problems.
If you intend to keep your sub in chastity for longer than a day, make sure that you are using a device that will allow for air, and proper hygiene.
Have fun!
mercoledì 1 maggio 2019
How to train you slave: The Reward.
Ogni volta che il dispositivo di castità viene tolto, dovrebbe essere chiaro che è una gentilezza che gli stai facendo.
Prima di essere tolto, le regole del suo comportamento dovrebbero essere chiare per lui.
Gli viene concesso di avere un orgasmo completo immediatamente o ad una certa ora? Per l'allenamento più efficace, raccomando che subito dopo il suo rilascio, organizzi un orgasmo incredibilmente potente e soddisfacente. Uno a cui partecipi direttamente o indirettamente. Questo intenso piacere rafforzerà quanto desiderabile essere fuori dalla castità e quanto sia duro essere disposto a fare tutto il necessario per guadagnarsi la sua libertà.
Più tardi, una volta che è stato condizionato e ben allenato, sarà grato per un orgasmo rovinato ... per essere stato autorizzato a toccare il suo cazzo. Ma per l'allenamento iniziale, l'orgasmo dovrebbe seguire il più presto possibile dopo il rilascio. Ancora una volta, questo è letteralmente ri-cablare il suo cervello per associarvi con piacere a voi e al vostro controllo.
Suggerimenti importanti
Se mantieni il tuo sub a lungo termine (più di un mese alla volta) castità, è importante per la sua salute che tu mandi la sua prostata ogni mese. Questo può avere il vantaggio aggiuntivo di evidenziare il tuo assoluto controllo sul suo corpo.
Assicurati di aver compreso come adattare e installare correttamente un dispositivo di castità. Una vestibilità inadatta può causare pizzicamento poco divertente o causare lividi non divertenti o problemi di flusso sanguigno.
Se hai intenzione di mantenere il tuo sub in castità per più di un giorno, assicurati di utilizzare un dispositivo che permetta aria e igiene adeguata.
Any time the chastity device is taken off, it should be clear that it is a kindness that you are bestowing upon him. Before it is taken off, the rules of his behavior should be crystal clear to him. Is he allowed to have a full orgasm immediately, or at a certain time? For the most effective training, I recommend that immediately following his release, you arrange for an incredibly powerful, satisfying orgasm. One that YOU take part in– either directly, or indirectly. This intense pleasure will reinforce how desirable it is to be out of chastity, and how hard he should be willing to do whatever it takes to earn his freedom from it.
Later, once he has been conditioned and well trained, he will be grateful for a ruined orgasm…for being allowed to touch his cock at all. But for initial training, the orgasm should follow as soon after release as possible. Again, this is quite literally re-wiring his brain to associate you and your control of him with pleasure.
Prima di essere tolto, le regole del suo comportamento dovrebbero essere chiare per lui.
Gli viene concesso di avere un orgasmo completo immediatamente o ad una certa ora? Per l'allenamento più efficace, raccomando che subito dopo il suo rilascio, organizzi un orgasmo incredibilmente potente e soddisfacente. Uno a cui partecipi direttamente o indirettamente. Questo intenso piacere rafforzerà quanto desiderabile essere fuori dalla castità e quanto sia duro essere disposto a fare tutto il necessario per guadagnarsi la sua libertà.Più tardi, una volta che è stato condizionato e ben allenato, sarà grato per un orgasmo rovinato ... per essere stato autorizzato a toccare il suo cazzo. Ma per l'allenamento iniziale, l'orgasmo dovrebbe seguire il più presto possibile dopo il rilascio. Ancora una volta, questo è letteralmente ri-cablare il suo cervello per associarvi con piacere a voi e al vostro controllo.
Suggerimenti importanti
Se mantieni il tuo sub a lungo termine (più di un mese alla volta) castità, è importante per la sua salute che tu mandi la sua prostata ogni mese. Questo può avere il vantaggio aggiuntivo di evidenziare il tuo assoluto controllo sul suo corpo.
Assicurati di aver compreso come adattare e installare correttamente un dispositivo di castità. Una vestibilità inadatta può causare pizzicamento poco divertente o causare lividi non divertenti o problemi di flusso sanguigno.
Se hai intenzione di mantenere il tuo sub in castità per più di un giorno, assicurati di utilizzare un dispositivo che permetta aria e igiene adeguata.
Any time the chastity device is taken off, it should be clear that it is a kindness that you are bestowing upon him. Before it is taken off, the rules of his behavior should be crystal clear to him. Is he allowed to have a full orgasm immediately, or at a certain time? For the most effective training, I recommend that immediately following his release, you arrange for an incredibly powerful, satisfying orgasm. One that YOU take part in– either directly, or indirectly. This intense pleasure will reinforce how desirable it is to be out of chastity, and how hard he should be willing to do whatever it takes to earn his freedom from it.
Later, once he has been conditioned and well trained, he will be grateful for a ruined orgasm…for being allowed to touch his cock at all. But for initial training, the orgasm should follow as soon after release as possible. Again, this is quite literally re-wiring his brain to associate you and your control of him with pleasure.
Important Tips
If you keep your sub in long term (longer than a month at a time) chastity, it is important for his health that you milk his prostate monthly. This can have the added bonus of highlighting your absolute control over his body.
Be sure that you understand how to properly fit and install a chastity device. An improper fit can cause un-fun pinching or cause un-fun bruising or blood flow problems.
If you intend to keep your sub in chastity for longer than a day, make sure that you are using a device that will allow for air, and proper hygiene.
If you keep your sub in long term (longer than a month at a time) chastity, it is important for his health that you milk his prostate monthly. This can have the added bonus of highlighting your absolute control over his body.
Be sure that you understand how to properly fit and install a chastity device. An improper fit can cause un-fun pinching or cause un-fun bruising or blood flow problems.
If you intend to keep your sub in chastity for longer than a day, make sure that you are using a device that will allow for air, and proper hygiene.
mercoledì 24 aprile 2019
How to train your slave: The Rules.
Ora, ho lui.
The Rules.
Now, I have him. He’s mine. Seriously. What will a man not do to have his cock, his pleasure? Both are now mine to command. It is best to have thought this out very carefully before locking him in. Chastity training is very powerful and making mistakes here isn’t desirable.
For the best results, these three components are essential:
Begin with (potentially) brief and clear-cut stints in chastity
Make the things he must do to get out of chastity and/or earn his orgasm very straightforward and obtainable
Keep your promises
If you want chastity to be an effective tool, he must see that his behavior is directly tied to his release. At first, the cause/effect correlation must be very clear. Most importantly, you must keep your word. If you say that he will be allowed release from chastity after he has made you breakfast in bed five days in a row, then you must keep your promise. There are lots of memes out there depicting women changing their mind about allowing their men out of chastity. For initial training purposes, this is an absolutely horrible idea. If your sub loses faith in the cause and effect nature of chastity, he will ultimately cease to trust that his behavior will have any impact on his release – thus lessening the power of your ‘threats’.
Now, once his brain has become re-wired and he realizes that he must behave…your timelines can become longer, the tasks more complicated, and you can occasionally change the rules. But I repeat – this should only be done after you have effectively broken him and trained him.
The benefits of male chastity
My rules tend to force him to focus on my pleasure – to force his brain to begin associating my pleasure as a prerequisite to his. Example: He must give me a certain amount orgasms before he is released. Now, I don’t need chastity to have him do this. First, he’s happy to lick my pussy at any time. Second, I could just tell him to lick my pussy at any time. So… why connect this to chastity? Because this is more than him deciding, or me giving an order. This is my choice to literally re-wire his brain to associate my orgasms to his own pleasure. And I don’t keep what I’m doing a secret. I want him to know what I am doing. I want him to know that his body is just the tool I’m using to control his mind. Of course, I add other things on as well, but my pleasure should always come first.
Lui è mio. Sul serio.
Cosa farà un uomo per avere il suo cazzo, il suo piacere?
Entrambi sono ora miei da comandare. È meglio averci pensato con molta attenzione prima di bloccarlo. L'allenamento alla castità è molto potente e fare errori qui non è auspicabile.
Per i migliori risultati, questi tre componenti sono essenziali:
Inizia con (potenzialmente) brevi e netti compiti in castità.
Organizza le cose che deve fare per uscire dalla castità e/o guadagnare il suo orgasmo in modo molto semplice e ottenibile.
Se vuoi che la castità sia uno strumento efficace, deve vedere che il suo comportamento è direttamente legato alla sua liberazione. Inizialmente, la correlazione causa / effetto deve essere molto chiara. Soprattutto, devi mantenere la tua parola. Se dici che gli sarà concesso il rilascio dalla castità dopo che ti avrà fatto colazione a letto per cinque giorni di seguito, allora devi mantenere la tua promessa. Ci sono un sacco di meme là fuori che raffigurano le donne che cambiano idea di permettere ai loro uomini di castigare. Ai fini della formazione iniziale, questa è un'idea assolutamente orribile. Se il tuo sub perde la fiducia nella causa ed effetto della natura della castità, alla fine smetterà di credere che il suo comportamento avrà un impatto sulla sua liberazione - diminuendo così il potere delle tue "minacce".
Ora, una volta che il suo cervello è stato ricollegato e si rende conto che deve comportarsi ... le tue scadenze possono allungarsi, i compiti possono diventare più complicati e puoi cambiare le regole ogni tanto.
Ma ripeto: questo dovrebbe essere fatto solo dopo averlo efficacemente rotto e addestrato.
I benefici della castità maschile
Le mie regole tendono a costringerlo a concentrarsi sul mio piacere - forzare il suo cervello ad iniziare ad associare il mio piacere come un prerequisito al suo.
Esempio: Deve darmi una certa quantità di orgasmi prima che venga rilasciato.
Ora, non ho bisogno della castità per farglielo fare. Innanzitutto, è felice di leccare la mia figa in qualsiasi momento. Secondo, potrei semplicemente dirgli di leccare la mia figa in qualsiasi momento. Quindi ... perché connetterlo alla castità?
Perché questo è più di quanto lui decida, o io sto dando un ordine. Questa è la mia scelta per re-legare letteralmente il suo cervello per associare i miei orgasmi al suo piacere. E non tengo quello che sto facendo in segreto. Voglio che sappia quello che sto facendo. Voglio che sappia che il suo corpo è solo lo strumento che sto usando per controllare la sua mente. Naturalmente, aggiungo anche altre cose, ma il mio piacere dovrebbe sempre venire prima.
Now, I have him. He’s mine. Seriously. What will a man not do to have his cock, his pleasure? Both are now mine to command. It is best to have thought this out very carefully before locking him in. Chastity training is very powerful and making mistakes here isn’t desirable.
For the best results, these three components are essential:
Begin with (potentially) brief and clear-cut stints in chastity
Make the things he must do to get out of chastity and/or earn his orgasm very straightforward and obtainable
Keep your promises
If you want chastity to be an effective tool, he must see that his behavior is directly tied to his release. At first, the cause/effect correlation must be very clear. Most importantly, you must keep your word. If you say that he will be allowed release from chastity after he has made you breakfast in bed five days in a row, then you must keep your promise. There are lots of memes out there depicting women changing their mind about allowing their men out of chastity. For initial training purposes, this is an absolutely horrible idea. If your sub loses faith in the cause and effect nature of chastity, he will ultimately cease to trust that his behavior will have any impact on his release – thus lessening the power of your ‘threats’.
Now, once his brain has become re-wired and he realizes that he must behave…your timelines can become longer, the tasks more complicated, and you can occasionally change the rules. But I repeat – this should only be done after you have effectively broken him and trained him.
The benefits of male chastity
My rules tend to force him to focus on my pleasure – to force his brain to begin associating my pleasure as a prerequisite to his. Example: He must give me a certain amount orgasms before he is released. Now, I don’t need chastity to have him do this. First, he’s happy to lick my pussy at any time. Second, I could just tell him to lick my pussy at any time. So… why connect this to chastity? Because this is more than him deciding, or me giving an order. This is my choice to literally re-wire his brain to associate my orgasms to his own pleasure. And I don’t keep what I’m doing a secret. I want him to know what I am doing. I want him to know that his body is just the tool I’m using to control his mind. Of course, I add other things on as well, but my pleasure should always come first.
mercoledì 17 aprile 2019
How to train your slave: Putting it on
Alla fine, indossare il dispositivo di castità diventerà una seconda natura - ma è necessario impostare l'esempio, impostare la situazione, le prime volte in cui si mette la gabbia.
Il modo, le parole e l'atteggiamento che adotti quando lo metti per la prima volta rimarrà con lui mentre lo indossa, e andando avanti, come si sente a indossarlo. Le prime volte mi assicuro che sappia quanto questo sia significativo ... che scelgo volutamente di prendere il controllo del suo corpo, che sto prendendo il suo cazzo, il suo simbolo di mascolinità, lontano da lui.
Possederlo.
Controllandolo.
Mio.
Per tutto il tempo che desidero.
Gli faccio pregare di indossarlo.
Lo faccio guardare mentre lo chiudo.
Gli faccio ringraziare per averlo fatto.
Eventually, wearing the chastity device will become second nature – but you must set the example, set the stage, the first few times that you put the cage on. The manner and words and attitude that you adopt when you put this on him for the first time will stay with him as he wears it, and going forward, how he feels about wearing it. The first few times I make sure that he knows how meaningful this is…that I am purposefully choosing to take control of his body, that I am taking his cock, his symbol of masculinity, away from him. Owning it. Controlling it. Mine. For as long as I wish. I make him beg me to put it on. I make him watch as I lock it. I make him thank me for doing it.
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mercoledì 10 aprile 2019
How to train your slave: the chastity device.
Ci sono molte versioni là fuori, ma per farlo funzionare, questo deve essere un dispositivo che sia sicuro e bloccabile.
Devo avere la chiave.
Ho il potere sul suo cazzo e lui non può scappare.
Questo è un messaggio enormemente potente e simbolico.
There are many versions out there, but for this to work, this needs to be a device that is secure and lock-able.
I must have the key.
I have the power over his cock and he cannot escape.
This is an enormously powerful and symbolic message.
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How to enforce chastity rules
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