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lunedì 17 giugno 2019

6 Reasons Why Men Should be Kept in Chastity

6 Reasons Why Men Should be Kept in Chastity or The Pleasures of Erotic Sexual Denial

1. Fidelity From Afar
Chastity devices were originally designed to keep the wearer faithful. Thus having his crown jewels locked away – so he can’t play away – is totally reassuring as it ensures his complete fidelity. In this way chastity devices also help deal with habitual cock wankers ensuring they aren’t off self-pleasuring themselves. Masturbation drains their desire of you and therefore should be controlled, monitored or stopped entirely.

2. Focus
Another effect is what I call ‘focus’ by keeping him in chastity, even when you are actually sexually engaged with him, forces him to focus on you and your pleasure. He should be giving you orgasms, and lots of them! If you don’t allow him to cum or even have that as an option, he has to concentrate on you; your pleasure becomes his pleasure. We all know the effect that cumming can have on a man – his small brain flips to food and football! So just don’t let him cum or motivate him with what we employ at The English Mansion – the 50 equals 1 rule (that a slave must give me 50 orgasms to earn just one for himself).

3. Sexual Re-Education
This leads to another use – controlling his sexual desires. His chastity device should ensure that he can’t even get an errection (not without a lot of pain ) Thus as soon as the device comes off he’s hard and hot for you. Keeping him always desperate, ready for sex, pliable and agreeable. Now is the time to steer him towards what you want sexually. His simple male brain can now be reprogrammed and his desires corrected e.g. only allowing him to get hard and/or cum while being fucked with a strapon or when licking your pussy

4. It’s Hot! Teasing & Total Denial
Teasing him in chastity i.e. keeping him in a heightened state of sexual arousal for a long time and then denying him an orgasm, as a woman can be so hot. Keeping him in a weakened state begging for release – pathetic, pliable & attentive. Knowing you have total control over him and you can use his sexual arousal against him to your advantage – the perfect male manipulation material. Never let him assume he will get an orgasm when engaged sexually with you, it should be at your whim or earned; and preferable after a very long period of abstinence.

5. Ownership
For BDSM players putting your slave into enforced chastity can symbolise ownership, like a collar or a body marking. It reminds him constantly of your control from afar and that you own him, his cock and rule his desires.

6. Feminisation
Chastity devices can also be useful for enforced male to female transformations, locking away his male genitalia permanently will help emasculate him. Using genital piercings to do this also has the benefit of pulling his cock back between the legs to lock it up, thus refining his figure and getting rid of this ugly unfeminine disfigurement.

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lunedì 10 giugno 2019

Pregiudizi da evitare su bondage e sul BDSM

Molti degli stereotipi negativi nati intorno al bondage e al bdsm promuovono l’idea che chiunque pratichi sesso estremo sia un pervertito.
Niente di più falso, naturalmente.
È colpa di un pregiudizio se il BDSM ha una cattiva reputazione, ma oggi proveremo a rimediare sfatando i falsi miti più diffusi attorno a questa pratica.

Dominazione significa punire continuamente il partner.
FALSO: anche se il partner si sottomette volontariamente agli ordini detiene comunque il potere di rifiutare un comando, se questo va oltre i suoi limiti. A tale proposito chi è coinvolto in attività che comportano il dominio e la sottomissione (anche denominati giochi di potere) di solito utilizza una parola sicura o “safe word” che, se pronunciata dal sottomesso, pone immediatamente fine al gioco.

La sottomissione è molto dolorosa.
FALSO: punire il sottomesso non significa per forza fargli del male. Tra le punizioni più comuni del role play BDSM troviamo sculacciate e colpi di frusta, ma le punizioni possono essere anche di genere psicologico come la castità forzata o la negazione dell’orgasmo, o qualcosa di più creativo come costringere il sottomesso a stare dieci minuti fuori casa fermo sotto la pioggia, oppure ordinargli di rassettare casa e passare l’aspirapolvere con addosso un’uniforme da cameriera.

Nel bondage e nel BDSM il padrone può abusare impunemente dello schiavo.
FALSO: tra padrone e schiavo tutto viene stabilito in anticipo. Perciò se pensate di provare questo particolare stile di vita, mettete in conto che dovrete prima parlare con il sottomesso di ciò che gli piace e di quello che invece non gli piace. Se è la prima volta che sentite parlare di BDSM probabilmente immaginate che legare l’amante e soddisfare le vostre fantasie senza chiedere il suo permesso sia un vostro diritto e faccia parte del gioco. Invece no, state solo commettendo un abuso.

La violenza è caratteristica del bondage e del BDSM.
FALSO: la componente essenziale del bondage e del BDSM non è la violenza ma il rispetto reciproco.

lunedì 3 giugno 2019

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The First Time I Got Spanked and Realized My Fetish for Watching Men Get Hard

"But, even though I'd fantasized about getting spanked, the pain came as a surprise. Like, whoa, shit, that does actually hurt a lot."

Illustration by Niallycat

This article was originally published on Broadly, a former VICE website focused on gender and identity. You can now find all of this coverage on

My First Time is a column and podcast series exploring sexuality, gender, and kink with the wide-eyed curiosity of a virgin. We all know your "first time" is about a lot more than just popping your cherry. From experimenting with kink to just trying something new and wild, everyone experiences thousands of first times in the bedroom—that's how sex stays fun, right?

This week, we're talking to sex blogger Girl on the Net about her first time getting spanked. You can catch My First Time on Acast, Google Play, Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or wherever you get your podcasts.

The first time I got spanked was with this guy I'd been seeing on and off at college.

We were both massive perverts. We'd read BDSM forums together for ideas—there was a forum called Informed Consent that we'd lurk on a lot. I'd wank about the stuff I read on there, and he was good at coming up with ideas too. One time, we were fucking and there was an empty wine bottle on my desk. He picked it up and said, "I'd really like to put this in your cunt. Can I put this in your cunt?" He wasn't shy about suggesting stuff for us to try!

I wasn't surprised when he suggested spanking me on the big wooden chair in the corner of his living room. It was the perfect height to kneel over and get fucked. When he said he wanted to spank me, it was really hot. I love those moments when someone suggests something in sex. Because what turns me on is doing something that someone else is really enthusiastic about.

I've been dreaming about and thinking about and wanking about being beaten and aggressively fucked since I was really young. I like to be the one being beaten—I prefer the submissive roles. But, even though I'd fantasized about getting spanked, the pain came as a surprise. Like, whoa, shit, that does actually hurt a lot.

He did that thing where he made me count off the strokes. And even though I was massively turned on, I didn't really enjoy the counting, or the pain. I couldn't work out what I actually liked about it.
I think he'd happily spent a whole evening beating me up and doing lots of filthy, pervy things. But I'm massively impatient. After five minutes of him spanking me, and just feeling his hands smacking my arse and touching my cunt, I was like, we definitely have to fuck now.

It was only a couple of months later that I realized what actually got me off. We'd gone to a fetish club, and the mistress of the dungeon was showing us around. We got to the spanking bench, and she offered to spank me.

While she was spanking me, he was holding my shoulders down. I looked at his crotch, and I could just see his dick start to grow in his trousers. It was throbbing and pressing against the fabric. And that's what I realized what got me off about spanking. It wasn't the pain. I don't want to be spanked because I'm a naughty girl. I want him to beat me because it makes him hard. I have a fetish for doing things that get guys hard.

Since then, I've played with dominant guys at fetish clubs, but sometimes they annoy me. What I'm looking for is the illusion of the loss of control. Often, guys at spanking parties and fetish clubs want to be so in control and calm and measured. That's not what I want. I want the loss of control. I want them to start smacking me and lose control and just fuck me instead.

In my experience, you need to introduce BDSM gradually with sexual partners. Don't do what I've done in the past, which is be like, now hit me in the face! Now spit in my mouth! I've probably scared a lot of guys I've had sex with—my desires can be intimidating if I don't introduce them gradually. That's been a bit of a learning experience; generally, I'm not great at communication.

Partners can push you sexually in better ways than a stranger could. You have a better rapport; he knows what sorts of things you like. If you want to feel totally out of control—if you're chasing that sense of abandonment—then a partner is better, because they can really go for it.

There's this misconception that BDSM play involves whips and chains and leathers, but so much of my BDSM play has taken place at home, in jeans and a T-shirt. You don't need a dungeon to get spanked—you don't even need any equipment, which is one of the reasons I like it. Just your hand and a naked ass.

I don't know if anything will ever fully satisfy that need I have, to watch men get hard for me. It's not about chasing the next person, or trying the next dirtiest thing. A lot of it is about chasing that moment when you get a rush of suddenly realising that this person is getting hard. Even though I've spent my whole life fantasizing about BDSM—since I was really young, lurking on BDSM forums—and I'm now a sex blogger and educator, sometimes I don't think I'm actually that great at BDSM! Like I can be tied down and do a really long BDSM scene, but most of the time I'm just like, let's fuck now already.

The first time I met my current partner we had a totally disastrous shag. It was like our second date. He'd never tried BDSM before, and I invited him back to mine and was like, "Let's fuck." He was quite taken aback by that, and was quite nervous. I kept trying to nudge him to be more powerful, and it was later on when we had a frank conversation about it that I realized I'd scared him a bit. The things I enjoy, he wasn't used to. In his head, he thought, you don't do those things to people, they're not nice. Whereas I'm used to being dominated and vigorously fucked.

Now, though, he fucks like it's the end of the world.

domenica 2 giugno 2019

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