1. Fidelity From Afar
Chastity devices were originally designed to keep the wearer faithful. Thus having his crown jewels locked away – so he can’t play away – is totally reassuring as it ensures his complete fidelity. In this way chastity devices also help deal with habitual cock wankers ensuring they aren’t off self-pleasuring themselves. Masturbation drains their desire of you and therefore should be controlled, monitored or stopped entirely.
Another effect is what I call ‘focus’ by keeping him in chastity, even when you are actually sexually engaged with him, forces him to focus on you and your pleasure. He should be giving you orgasms, and lots of them! If you don’t allow him to cum or even have that as an option, he has to concentrate on you; your pleasure becomes his pleasure. We all know the effect that cumming can have on a man – his small brain flips to food and football! So just don’t let him cum or motivate him with what we employ at The English Mansion – the 50 equals 1 rule (that a slave must give me 50 orgasms to earn just one for himself).
3. Sexual Re-Education
This leads to another use – controlling his sexual desires. His chastity device should ensure that he can’t even get an errection (not without a lot of pain ) Thus as soon as the device comes off he’s hard and hot for you. Keeping him always desperate, ready for sex, pliable and agreeable. Now is the time to steer him towards what you want sexually. His simple male brain can now be reprogrammed and his desires corrected e.g. only allowing him to get hard and/or cum while being fucked with a strapon or when licking your pussy
4. It’s Hot! Teasing & Total Denial
Teasing him in chastity i.e. keeping him in a heightened state of sexual arousal for a long time and then denying him an orgasm, as a woman can be so hot. Keeping him in a weakened state begging for release – pathetic, pliable & attentive. Knowing you have total control over him and you can use his sexual arousal against him to your advantage – the perfect male manipulation material. Never let him assume he will get an orgasm when engaged sexually with you, it should be at your whim or earned; and preferable after a very long period of abstinence.
For BDSM players putting your slave into enforced chastity can symbolise ownership, like a collar or a body marking. It reminds him constantly of your control from afar and that you own him, his cock and rule his desires.
Chastity devices can also be useful for enforced male to female transformations, locking away his male genitalia permanently will help emasculate him. Using genital piercings to do this also has the benefit of pulling his cock back between the legs to lock it up, thus refining his figure and getting rid of this ugly unfeminine disfigurement.